I am in love with my best friend. what do i do?

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flowers525 | 06-01-2011 07:54

hello i been best friends with this guy for two years were inseperable. everywhere we go everyone assumes were dating. he spend hours on the phone. see each other almost daily and stay out till 2 am sometimes. how do i know if he likes me? what can i do to get out of the bff zone with him and into a more romantic zone?

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Melissa302675 | 06-01-2011 18:21

fisrt of all tell him how you feel. then see what his responce is to that and move form there.but some times that kinda stuff doesnt work.

PunkRckr8 | 06-01-2011 21:10

If you actually spend this much time with the guy and do these things he already likes you like that

or he's gay

jonajager | 06-01-2011 23:49

find him.

* offtopic :
watch the language please

Melissa302675 | 07-01-2011 00:55

im not sure if he means that litterally or if he ios telling u to not bother^^^^^

flowers525 | 07-01-2011 06:03

He is out of the country and he called me once sends me messages on fb.
im scared to loose the freidnship if i tell him how i truly feel. and hes not gay thats for sure

paco41 | 07-01-2011 09:00

a similar thing happened to me, unfortunately she didn't see me as boyfriend material, just as bff material =S
truth is, sometimes you just have to take a "leap of faith" and hope for the best.... although it may in time also ruin your relationship instead of strengthening it....

JDolla | 08-01-2011 20:24

whip out them sweater puppets

Melissa302675 | 08-01-2011 20:55

WHAT??? what do puppets have to do with loving a bff?

JDolla | 12-01-2011 00:18

are you retarded?

ModiMagic | 20-01-2011 22:26

1] Create/ borrow/ copy a good love poem.

2] Write it neatly in some personal diary of yours (mentioning his name atleast once, somewhere in the poem)

3] Leave the diary at a strategic place for him to "discover" your hidden feelings!!

If this doesn't work with him, well, you can try it on me

Melissa302675 | 21-01-2011 20:36

jdolla thats is soo distugsting first of all second of all why couldnt u just say tits?

ahniekah | 01-08-2011 19:16

same problem here...

LavomenoKsotiko | 01-09-2012 14:48

well i have the same situation here...with a girl its hard to lose a friendship like this but what about the pain you are going to feel if he/she found someone else???? you dont deserve such a pain so express your feelings if it goes well enjoy it if doesnt live on!!! thats what i am sayin' to myself...

Makis_G | 18-09-2012 13:24

Two years is a long time... You should know by now if he likes you or not.
Anyway, say to him that you feel lonely and see what happens....

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