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lunaShine4u | 09-01-2004 06:53

maybe lots of u already talk about it but i want to ask again, who will u choose ur boyfriend or ur bestfriend? in case maybe ur bestfriend do not like ur boyfriend or maybe ur boyfriend do not like ur bestfriend!!! and when they want u to choose, who do you choose? ur bestfriend or bestfriend?

24 comments

YubaCityCutie | 09-01-2004 06:53

best friend or best frie

YubaCityCutie | 09-01-2004 06:54

ugh wtf friend*

loser_kid_71 | 09-01-2004 07:23

ur bestfriend or bestfriend?

Dekar | 09-01-2004 07:31

Why choose? If one of them asks you to choose between them, choose the other one.

JustxMe | 09-01-2004 09:50

Best friend- Cause they are hard to get and you can't find any good ones now a days easily.

El_Mono_Loco | 09-01-2004 09:53

I hate when Dek steals the words from my mouth...

I agree with him, I'd choose the one who didn't make me choose, that simple.

And in a 50/50 split, it would depend on the situation, but I'd most likely lean towards my friend because girls lie.

BlueStarlite16 | 09-01-2004 12:13

Best friend - Guys really do come and go but friends will always be there no matter what.

star_light | 09-01-2004 12:52

ususally my bf is my best mate

BUT if some1 makes u chose..they arent worth it

Masterful_Ally | 09-01-2004 15:37

I wouldn't choose, I'd refuse. I'd keep both of them, and if they hate each other, tough luck. I'd just tell em to stop being so immature.

That would never happen anyway, none of my best friends would ever dream of making me choose

SomeCallMeMaxx | 09-01-2004 15:44

I'd hope they could be one in the same, but if I was forced to choose I'd go with best friend. They're the person that you don't need to impress to have a relationship with.

Even though I've been the best friend and got dumped for the boyfriend.

andro | 09-01-2004 15:45

If either of them asks you to choose between them and the other, then they're obviously not what you thought they were...

nazgol | 09-01-2004 18:02

keep the one that is the better friend, if you think you'll someday breakup with ur BF, then keep ur bestfriend
but if you're not sure what ur best friend will do ,it's better to lose him/her
sometimes the best friends are enemies

aflackoh6 | 09-01-2004 18:03

chicks before di*ks

Dekar | 09-01-2004 18:08

Bros before hoes.

star_light | 09-01-2004 18:11

loool

SomeCallMeMaxx | 09-01-2004 18:11

I before E except after C

evee | 09-01-2004 18:53

...i'm shocked...

blinkbelle | 09-01-2004 20:45

but what if ur boyfriend IS your bestfriend?
alexis
xxx

C4L | 09-01-2004 20:47

most o the time best mate, cuz they will always be there (hopefully) while boyfriends come and go really

C4L | 09-01-2004 20:48

wwwwait, they want you to choose! they shouldnt do that!

naya | 12-01-2004 22:25

I personally think you shouldn't choose. Your boyfriend is your business it shouldn't bother her. And if your boyfriend have a problem with your bestfriend it's none of his business either. If they both care about you then they need to learn how to deal with it.

LittleMissNunez | 12-01-2004 22:39

I get fustrated and if I was stuck between I would probably say...
SCREW THE BOTH OF YOU! Heehee...

Well, in some cases, your best friend matters more and in other cases, your boyfriend/girlfriend is there for you more or matters more. Some people have best friends that will mess around with their boyfriends...and that...thats another case it itself...So...ahh...you never really know.

vandy | 12-01-2004 22:43

It depends...if you're still in high school, most likely your best friend. Or if you're not "serious" about your boyfriend.

I dunno...my bro Steven and I were talking about it recently though...and if you're pretty sure you're going to marry your current bf...well...he and I both believe that marriage is the relationship on earth most like the one we are to have with God. So yeah, that IS a pretty important relationship.

crazydazibaby | 12-01-2004 22:43

i duno.. my sister just went through this. she and her friends don't like her other friends boyfriend and they totally treated her bad.. and the other friend isnt choosing... but yeah i'd definitely try to balance it.. but if they make you choose.. i agree with everyone about how you should evaluate your friendship or relationship

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