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speedway260 | 28-12-2003 13:07

Ok so my parents are having a divorce and was wondering if you have ne adivce 4 me

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Katka36 | 28-12-2003 13:08

omg... my parents are divorced... wot kinda advice do you need?

up_all_night | 28-12-2003 13:15

My advice:

Ask each one of them a high allowance

if they say it's too much you

cry a bit and say you're suffering with the divorce...
I got about 20€ from each parent

that gives 40€ per month ($20 per month)
You can benefit a lot from your parents' divorce!

speedway260 | 28-12-2003 13:18

the_locust | 28-12-2003 13:26

Surely your parents not living together in peace is better than them living together in arguments? After a while you'll be fine. They probably spoil you more anyway, through feeling guilty. Good luck, take care

speedway260 | 28-12-2003 13:27

thansk you

up_all_night | 28-12-2003 13:30

Isn't my advice useful?

I know all about taking advantage of a divorce...
Why did you star to

speedway260 | 28-12-2003 13:32

and thank u too

speedway260 | 28-12-2003 13:32

katka upset me *goes and hugs up*

blinkbelle | 28-12-2003 14:06

mark hoppus- 'divorce sucks, it's so ****ed'
my parents divorced when i was three
alexis
xxx

~edited by moderator~

Katka36 | 28-12-2003 15:17

me? me?

rawkerNoNagal | 28-12-2003 16:30

Trying to take advantage of your parents during a divorce is absolutely sick and disgusting. Did you ever think that this is hard for them too?

blinkbelle | 28-12-2003 16:32

i dont believe it is sick or disgusting,
but i didnt do it
alexis
xxx

rawkerNoNagal | 28-12-2003 16:33

But it is. Here are two people that pledged to stay together for the rest of their life, and now something so bad has happened that they can't even be together anymore. It's so hard on them, and would you rather be around the fights forever or would you want to live in a peaceful household?

blinkbelle | 28-12-2003 16:36

i dont live in a peaceful household
and also, why put 'but it is' when i just said that i BELIEVE it is?
dont force ur beliefs on me
alexis
xxx

rawkerNoNagal | 28-12-2003 16:37

I'm not forcing you to believe anything. I just think that's completely awful. Don't turn this in to something personal when it's not.

blinkbelle | 28-12-2003 16:38

im not, its just u said would u rather live with fights or in a peaceful household, well my parents are divorced and i do not live in a peaceful household, what do u say to that?

alexis
xxx

rawkerNoNagal | 28-12-2003 16:40

I never said that when people divorced it would be perfect.

But if they got divorced (which I'm sorry to hear) then it would be LESS peaceful then it is now.

blinkbelle | 28-12-2003 16:41

eh? im confused, i thought u said that it'd be better if they got divorced, not worse

alexis
xxx

rawkerNoNagal | 28-12-2003 17:09

my mistake, i meant MORE peaceful

aflackoh6 | 28-12-2003 17:11

Blink 182 - Stay Together For The Kids
and
Papa Roach - Broken Home
might help you feel a little better

star_light | 28-12-2003 20:27

mine r divorced-
try not to lose contact with one-cause thats sh*t...thats really horrible and it hurts. dont get too angry...and it isnt ur fault...in my case it kinda was my fault-but it wont b urs

speedway260 | 29-12-2003 14:21

thank you

knickers | 29-12-2003 14:32

even though your parents are getting divorced its not the end of the world - at least you still have both your parents - 1 of my friends mum died 3weeks ago and she is completely devastated - so even tho your parents are not living together anymore you will still get to see them and stuff. Also i think that all u can do is learn to accept it even tho its hard - your parents will be happier separated. hope everything goes ok 4 u. - vicky xx

speedway260 | 29-12-2003 18:58

Broken Home
All alone
Broken Home
All Alone

I can't seem to fight these feelings
I'm caught in the middle of this
My wounds are not healing
I'm stuck in between my parents
I wish i had someone to talk to
Someone I could confide in
I just want to know the truth
I just want to know the truth
Want to know the truth

Broken home
All alone

I know my mother loves me
But does my father even care
If I'm sad or angry
You were never ever there
When I needed you
I hope you regret what you did
I think I know the truth
Your father did the same to you
Did the same to you

I'm crying day and night now
What is wrong with me
I cannot fight now
I feel like a weak link
Push it back inside
A weak link

It feels bad to be alone
Crying by yourself
Living in a broken home
How could i tell it
So all you could feel it
Depression strikes hard
Just like my old earth would tell it
To me , her son
She told me I'm the one
Pain bottled up
Bout to blow like a gun
Stories that I tell are nonfiction
And you can take it back cuz it's already done

BROKEN HOME! BROKEN HOME!

Can't seem to fight these feelings
Caught in the middle of this
My wounds are not healing
Stuck in between my parents

BROKEN HOME! BROKEN HOME!

aflackoh6 | 29-12-2003 19:00

i take it that means you like the song?

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