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rawkerNoNagal | 24-12-2003 23:51

Boy troubles? Duh!

Well there's someone I've been really close to the past 3 months or so. I've told him pretty much everything about me (I'll call him phone). Phone constantly compliments me and is just always there and really sweet to me.

I've never been in love...serious LIKE for sure, but I think this may be different. Everything he says, it just makes me feel so good. I just feel totally myself when I talk to him, and I LIVE for talking to him

What do you think this means? I've never had a friendship like this before, so I'm not sure. I just don't know what to think...

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rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 01:00

lol yup...we have no cookies, so I'm setting out biscotti and milk I think lol

blondechika578 | 25-12-2003 01:02

haha i think we are making ours tomorrow... i'll have like pink finger tips because of the sprinkles

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 01:41

lol....dude, I tried talking about this situation with a friend, and she totally misunderstood. argh.

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 04:23

Oh I Love Him.

KingJeZter | 25-12-2003 04:25

Good for you dear, good for you

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 04:25

sarcasm?

KingJeZter | 25-12-2003 04:28

nope, none involve. Because really, good for you... lol I would never have the courage

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 04:29

Thanks then! haha... yea I'm pretty scared. This is the first time I've ever loved someone..

KingJeZter | 25-12-2003 04:33

yeah it is scary aint it... mine happened not long ago and I must say I am still rather scared sh*tless... lol

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 04:35

awww...yikes. I bet you're next time it'll run smoother.

KingJeZter | 25-12-2003 04:36

well no, its still going, its just that lol sometimes I still get scared... hmm

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 04:37

now i'm afraid....deathly afraid, you could say, lol

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 04:37

oh yea i made a thread about the song 'wish you were here' awhile ago, i expected you in it and you werent! silly jezter....

blondechika578 | 25-12-2003 04:37

friends that misunderstand just make me upset even more than i am! but i'm glad that you came here and shared it with us...i do that now than to talk to my friends

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 04:38

yes because sometimes my friends just judge me, and i hate that

blondechika578 | 25-12-2003 04:50

yea i hate it too

Dekar | 25-12-2003 05:00

Sleep with the guy. As soon as possible too!

Oh, and don't floss your teeth after brushing. You gotta make sacrifices.

Dekar | 25-12-2003 05:01

Okay, I don't mean that.

Simply talk to him about it.

Oh, and flossing after brushing helps prevents gum disease. Do that too.

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 05:01

*Salutes the bastard, I mean Dek*

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 05:01

haha dek, will do

rawkerNoNagal | 25-12-2003 23:14

*bumping for alicia, if she cares lol*

SerenaVenus | 26-12-2003 01:05

you're 14, he's 19...

who am I to say, but I think that's quite much...

rawkerNoNagal | 26-12-2003 01:05

Michael Douglas is more than 30 years older than Catherine Zeta Jones, and they have a great happy marraige.

SomeCallMeMaxx | 27-12-2003 00:21

Yea, but when he was 44 I bet he wasn't checking out 14 year olds.

Age is kinda a big deal for some people, especially when it's at such a young age. Anything past 23 people seem to care less what the age difference is. But when it's teenagers it's a little more sensitive.

Masterful_Ally | 27-12-2003 00:28

Hmmm...well, before I read about the age difference I would have said tell him how you feel, BUT, until you are a little older, just a couple of years, I don't think you should go into any kind of relationsip with him - simply because you will risk losing his friendship. A nineteen year old guy will want things out of a relationship, that you, at 14, wont be able to give him - I'm not just talking sex, I mean theres something on a deeper level that will be wrong, he'll have had so much more experiance than you. You need a couple of years to experiment and learn about and build more confidence with guys yourself before you could settle down with him and be confident that it would 'work'.

S'just my opinion though

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