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dontlookback | 18-12-2003 02:46

If I kissed someone while having a boyfriend, what should I do. It will never happen again and I realize it's a mistake but should I tell him even though I know I want to be with him for a long time (doing this made me realize). I don't want to ruin anything between us and I was wondering what you guys thought I should do. Tell or not?

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XxNirvanaxX | 18-12-2003 05:14

*burp*

Joe, help. I need a life.

blondechika578 | 18-12-2003 05:20

* offtopic :
i'm in 9th *does cool little dance

anoobis | 18-12-2003 05:25

we all do julie, we all do

mmmm freshman year was so fun...and so easy...

XxNirvanaxX | 18-12-2003 05:26

Our school gives Freshmen the hardest work.

blondechika578 | 18-12-2003 05:26

yea i have EOC's tomorrow and firday

eoc's=end of course

anoobis | 18-12-2003 05:32

oh man...freshman year was so easy...history was easy...math was easy...english was beyond easy...physics was easy...PE...ha...spanish was kinda hard, but it was fun so i wasn't bummed...mmm...

blondechika578 | 18-12-2003 05:34

ahhh PE is such a drag here like every sport we do we have to know like ever rule and every other little thing about it....and doing the lifting weight unit...oh god dont get me started on that one....

anoobis | 18-12-2003 05:34

haha our PE is so disorganized...they just switch our sport every couple weeks and make sure no one gets tackled

XxNirvanaxX | 18-12-2003 05:36

PE is easy-o

blondechika578 | 18-12-2003 05:37

ah your too lucky!

aussie_celesty | 18-12-2003 05:39

I agree with Maxx ... you should tell him. It only makes things worse keeping things. You tell one lie, and it turns into two, then three ... then before you know it you can't even remember the truth. Tell him ... the whole story. If he really values the relationship ... you two will get through it ...

Creampuff0526 | 18-12-2003 05:47

yea i think you should deff tell him...this happened to me but he went and kissed another girl...he waited like 2 weeks to tell mewhich made it soo much worse. and when he told me i was soo mad i didnt know what to do. but i didnt do anything we went on with our relationship...about a week later it kinda sunk into me that he acctually went and was with some other chick...then we got in a really big arguement but it was all ok in the end...so speaking from expirience, dont wait to long to tell him!

blondechika578 | 18-12-2003 05:47

wow i hope i never kiss another guy while going out with another... that would just be horrible on my behalf

PenguinGirly | 18-12-2003 08:01

Definately tell him, but be like: "Here's the deal - I did something really stupid, and I absolutely regret it and I swear I will never do it again, but I kissed Joe Blow. It was teh other day, we were *blah blah blah*.

In other words, tell him that you regret it before you tell him what it is that you regret, and then describe the entire situation of how the kiss happened.

Oh yeah - if at all possible, tell him in person, in private.

Masterful_Ally | 18-12-2003 12:31

Don't tell him, it will only hurt him. Yeah, you're probably gonna feel guilty, but I think that's just the 'penance' for the act, for want of a better word. As long as you can be sure the other guy you kissed wont tell him (that would be worse) I'd suggest you don't tell him.

And before anyone says anything, yes, I know I have strange morals, lol.

SomeCallMeMaxx | 18-12-2003 15:54

* offtopic :
Alex you goof

Your morals interest me ma'am, and I would like a subscription to your magazine. hehe

Hey Victoria! I'm usually haunting this forum cuz I like giving/reading advice. It intrigues me how the mind works, and what sorta trouble people get themselves in.

*hugs the penguin*

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