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louise001 | 26-11-2003 16:35

ok i had a boy friend but i really like this other lad hes soooo fit and he likes me to but i still like my boyfriend i dont no wot to do coz i have been seeing my boy 4 about a year and i cant just break up with him wot shall i do?
thanx if ne1 has somot to say im all ears!
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Jez | 26-11-2003 16:37

Don't mess around with your fella's feelings. If you do not like him in that way anymore, tell him, otherwise the pain is only gonna build. Trust me.... I know.

It's the least he deserves, and you have to be honest to yourself as well.

serotoninsurge | 26-11-2003 16:37

Your willing to drop a year relationship for this new guy you've bumped into? sounds like perhaps your jumping the gun. Its kinda your own opinion do you like where your relation ship is going so far? or would you like to end it? i think thats what you need to ask yourself and are you just wanting to date this new guy becuz he looks better?

ravenskiss | 26-11-2003 16:38

this is what you should do talk to your boyfriend and see how he really feels about you if you feel the same stay with him but if you don't and your mutually exclusive then dump him and go out with thi new guy.

louise001 | 26-11-2003 16:39

no coz me lad is gorgeous but i really like him but i also like this other guy and i dont no wot to do

serotoninsurge | 26-11-2003 16:41

well if your second guessing your relationship maybe it is a sign you dont like this guy. and maybe you should move on. its a personal question

serotoninsurge | 26-11-2003 16:43

* offtopic :
imogen go to 'Vehicle Choice' thread

ravenskiss | 26-11-2003 16:43

yeah but can he make you laugh do you think of nothing but him, well obviously you don't coz oyur thinking of this other guy who you know nothing about..

louise001 | 26-11-2003 16:47

so who sould i go 4?

Jez | 26-11-2003 16:48

*shakes head*

ravenskiss | 26-11-2003 16:48

answer these questions...

1)do you love your boyfriend
2)does he love you
3)how does this new boy make you feel
4)can you see yourself maryying either of them
5)can i have a bisciut

surfingchic012 | 26-11-2003 16:49

Just remember, that if you do screw things up w/your boyfriend .. and go out with this new guy - sometime down the road your gonna compare this new guy to your boyfriend and remember the things your boyfriend used to do .. and by then its gonna be too late ..

im just saying count the cost lou ..

serotoninsurge | 26-11-2003 16:49

you should make this decision not us, your BF would not like us making it for you. like raven said you need to know that stuff first.

ravenskiss | 26-11-2003 16:50

but the main thing is can i please have a bisciut?

louise001 | 26-11-2003 16:52

ok
1) yes
2)i dont no
3)happy
4)yes both
5)

yes

ravenskiss | 26-11-2003 16:54

*eats biscuit*

well then your screwed...just think who do you want more and who care more about you...are they actually making you choose or are you just doubting your self.

serotoninsurge | 26-11-2003 16:56

umhum how about you throw some of that biscut over here!

ravenskiss | 26-11-2003 16:57

*throws daddy some biscuit*

there you go..

Jez | 26-11-2003 16:58

At the age of 14 I was still into computer games, thundercats, action man and football. ..... 9 years on, and nothing's changed. Well... maybe I'm interested in a few more things now.

serotoninsurge | 26-11-2003 16:59

aww poor deprived jez.

QUPNCY | 26-11-2003 16:59

yeah, i'm with everyone here.. i don't see how you are considering giving up a year long relationship.. that's ages & you obviously don't love him as much as you think you do.

also, it's not use asking us what your supposed to do..we don't know you or the 'lads' or your feelings for them. up to you really.

ravenskiss | 26-11-2003 17:00

*cough*your*cough*screwed*cough*

Jez | 26-11-2003 17:01

In more ways than one raven.

ravenskiss | 26-11-2003 17:03

v.good point, not like me....

QUPNCY | 26-11-2003 17:08

*says hi to virgin mary* lol.

ravenskiss | 26-11-2003 17:08

i could be the virgin raven

*ponders* how to give birth without sex?

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