Can you love a guy and hate him at the same time?

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babygir355l | 24-05-2006 06:39

[topic=] And I did

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hobbitgirl | 24-05-2006 08:02

There is a very thin line between love and hate.

BlackRia | 24-05-2006 08:06

Yea its possible. Its happening right now with my friend & I.

_AdreNaliN_ | 24-05-2006 08:25

As for the question. Yes

NightHobbit | 24-05-2006 08:26

you can love them but hate who they are

fishmunky | 24-05-2006 11:48

Love and Hate are not opposites

according to a Hindu traqdition i believe, Love, Hate and Fear all stem from the same center of the body

its quite possible to feel love hate and fgear at the same person or object

personally i think the opposite of love is indifference

stephanie8414 | 24-05-2006 11:50

Of course it's possible to love and hate someone at the same time. Love is nearly impossible to control and overcome, but hate can be controlled pretty easily.

fruity | 24-05-2006 11:59

already a poll discussion on this topic-

linky

BynnaD | 24-05-2006 16:38

Stuck by Stacie Orrico

Seriously, give it a listen.

SHEMANGOD | 03-06-2006 01:12

Of course, that is how my ex's and I's relationship worked for a LONG time. He is a really great guy, but I couldn't stand the things he'd do to me. I really didn't like him, but at the same time, I loved him so much, that I couldn't fix the problem. Just a hint, if you hate them, and you date them, THAT IS BAD!

cairowinters | 03-06-2006 02:23

Yeah you can, because the person you love the most is the same one who can hurt you the most. It's because you love them that they can hurt you.

dark_me | 03-06-2006 02:38

yes

MuzikChick | 11-06-2006 06:06

yes you can. Sometimes you can hate this guy because you know you love him. And you dont want to.

sexysugar15 | 13-07-2006 12:41

OMG YES!!! Theres times where i want to kill jason in his sleep and times where i just wanna cuddle in his arms...

HATE N LOVE BEST FIT TOGTHER!!!

MARIA

wow_its_me | 15-07-2006 02:08

of course you can...

emological | 22-08-2006 20:55

yeah, its extreeemly possible- it happened to me once:
i fell in love with a guy who totally wrecked me, i went through a whole phase of still loving him but hating him for the same reason as i loved him, and hating him because i loved him. crazy huh?
xxx

Dropkicked | 22-08-2006 21:21

yes lol at the moment I am in love and loathing with a guy, made all the more complicated by the fact I thought I was a lesbian lol

mpj9121 | 23-08-2006 21:33

definitely.

TurkishDelightt | 27-08-2006 10:29

i think it is a werd question, but i completely agree that it is possible and yea i felt the same many times too

TurkishDelightt | 27-08-2006 10:29

*weird and i didnt mean the question i meant the situation

Little_Fox | 06-09-2006 20:20

I'm in that situation right now...... lol

babygir355l | 04-12-2006 11:02

well you can, especially when you two break up, it did happened to me, thats why i ask the question.

Pandora | 04-12-2006 14:30

like I said in that thread you were linked to :

Pandora @ 05-05-2006 02:31 PM

no, hate and love are both extremely strong emotions.. sure there is a fine line between... (even tho it's not a fine line because of the closeness of the emotions.. but more then strength of each as a stand alone) but if you love someone there is no way in hell that hate will find it's way into your heart for them.

and with true hate.. you despise everything about them.. there is no way you can love them after that.

people only use vague definitions of 'love' and 'hate'.... love is more a 'like' or 'infatuation'... and 'hate' has become the universal term for 'I don't like you'... so of course they are going to be enterwined because at the suggestion of 'like' .. you have no idea HOW you feel about the person.

but the emotions at their purest form... no.

so.. when you are stuck in 'like' .. anything is possible.

don't waste the pure word of 'love' on something that quaint.

rockon
tabitha

skye_hoppus | 04-12-2006 16:36

i love him but i hate what he's done to me.

maybe you can love someone but hate their actions?

hmm

it certainly feels like love and hate

xxx

TheAnnoyance | 04-12-2006 17:10

i agree with Tab.

babygir355l | 05-12-2006 17:12

why agree with Tab when he/she can be totally wrong, you can love a person but hate them for who they are, and hate them at the same time, because they might hurt you or cheat on you. So i said that Tab is completely wrong cuz she/he just dont know what to say, but they should just wait until they are in that situation, then they should how it is. So why get involved when you just dont know what it is really about.

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