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LudMan | 25-04-2008 20:11
Hello Dawn!
I both appreciate and empathize withy your vulnerability and somewhat depressing disillusionment. Primarily - YES - I've learned through living,
feeling lonely at times(and,maybe even "miserable" IS a part of life.
As for why is life so hard...?,because, THIS ain't Heaven[b](or OZ;only Kansas)Please excuse me my Kansas brethren. Also remember
Jesus never promised us a rose garden but actually cautioned us,like Him,we would feel like we were at times in The Garden(assuming
you viewed the opening scene of "The Passion",directed by Mel Gibson 2004).
We ALL feel lonely because we,in this sinful(and sin-filled) world are seperated from Him.This is not our home,we're all homeless children HERE on Earth.
THIS is NOT our true home.We're all on a journey back to our real "home".
God is the ONLY guy who will always treat you right and won't
let you down.EVERYONE else is fallible.
Well,thanks for writing.
PS To me,Carolyn Arrends said(sang) it the best in her song "Reaching[b]"
PSS Take a quick look at topic "hopefully succeeding to encourage someone".
I both appreciate and empathize withy your vulnerability and somewhat depressing disillusionment. Primarily - YES - I've learned through living,
feeling lonely at times(and,maybe even "miserable" IS a part of life.
As for why is life so hard...?,because, THIS ain't Heaven[b](or OZ;only Kansas)Please excuse me my Kansas brethren. Also remember
Jesus never promised us a rose garden but actually cautioned us,like Him,we would feel like we were at times in The Garden(assuming
you viewed the opening scene of "The Passion",directed by Mel Gibson 2004).
We ALL feel lonely because we,in this sinful(and sin-filled) world are seperated from Him.This is not our home,we're all homeless children HERE on Earth.
THIS is NOT our true home.We're all on a journey back to our real "home".
God is the ONLY guy who will always treat you right and won't
let you down.EVERYONE else is fallible.
Well,thanks for writing.
PS To me,Carolyn Arrends said(sang) it the best in her song "Reaching[b]"
PSS Take a quick look at topic "hopefully succeeding to encourage someone".
JDolla | 25-04-2008 22:16
don't listen to that d-bag. life is what you make it. there is certainly some divine intervention, call it god or what have you. but the struggles in life are what build character. good reatcions to hard things builds positive character, while giving up or reacting negatively builds negative character
and everybody goes through hard times, but just keep your shoulders low and push through it. things can always get better based on how you react to the harder times
and everybody goes through hard times, but just keep your shoulders low and push through it. things can always get better based on how you react to the harder times
Kristha | 27-04-2008 00:57
Yes wow, I have to agree with LudMan.
carole | 27-04-2008 20:39
i got a question : where were u at the time of the murder?
kians_angel | 28-04-2008 08:17
i got a question : where were u at the time of the murder?
Oh dear. I lol'd. pretty damn hard too.
Anyways, So many people are disillusioned in thinking that being in love solves everything. It does not. It does not make your life complete and it does not solve the feeling of loneliness. Loneliness IS something we all feel. But if you have friends and a close family then thing even themselves out eventually. It's a feeling that is unfortunately a part of life. I'm feeling that maybe you're not living your life as fully as you should be. Do you have a long term career that gives you satisfaction and self worth? Have you done things in life that you wanted to achieve before its too late? Have you done things in life that give you pride and satisfaction?
Love is meant to be the greatest feeling in the world. But you should worry about that once you have sorted your own feelings, and your own head out.
Oh dear. I lol'd. pretty damn hard too.
Anyways, So many people are disillusioned in thinking that being in love solves everything. It does not. It does not make your life complete and it does not solve the feeling of loneliness. Loneliness IS something we all feel. But if you have friends and a close family then thing even themselves out eventually. It's a feeling that is unfortunately a part of life. I'm feeling that maybe you're not living your life as fully as you should be. Do you have a long term career that gives you satisfaction and self worth? Have you done things in life that you wanted to achieve before its too late? Have you done things in life that give you pride and satisfaction?
Love is meant to be the greatest feeling in the world. But you should worry about that once you have sorted your own feelings, and your own head out.
LudMan | 28-04-2008 10:20
Yes wow, I have to agree with LudMan.
Thanks Krista, I appreciate the vote of affirmation.
Thanks Krista, I appreciate the vote of affirmation.
ice_white_tiger | 28-04-2008 12:06
Totally agree with Helen and Jeremy there.
Love is an amazing feeling, and sure, having someone there can help things along... but they won't solve your problems. Only you can do that.
You said you have friends and a loving family - why don't you talk to them about how you feel? They can help you, whether it be with finding a partner or just generally getting more out of life. As Helly said, maybe getting a job you enjoy can help. If there's something you really want to do as a career, why not go back to school, or take a course in something?
Anywho... it's not unusual to still feel lonely even with people around you who care. More often than not, you feel lonely because you're not happy with what's going on with your life, not the lack of people in it. There's been plenty of times when I've been with my family or friends, and I've felt lonely because what they were doing (at the time or with their life) wasn't what I was doing/wanted to do.
Talk about it to someone. Your friends, family, even some of us here if you want
Love is an amazing feeling, and sure, having someone there can help things along... but they won't solve your problems. Only you can do that.
You said you have friends and a loving family - why don't you talk to them about how you feel? They can help you, whether it be with finding a partner or just generally getting more out of life. As Helly said, maybe getting a job you enjoy can help. If there's something you really want to do as a career, why not go back to school, or take a course in something?
Anywho... it's not unusual to still feel lonely even with people around you who care. More often than not, you feel lonely because you're not happy with what's going on with your life, not the lack of people in it. There's been plenty of times when I've been with my family or friends, and I've felt lonely because what they were doing (at the time or with their life) wasn't what I was doing/wanted to do.
Talk about it to someone. Your friends, family, even some of us here if you want
kians_angel | 28-04-2008 15:46
^ karla hit the nail on the head right there
thats the general gist of what i was tying to say, but being tired, hungover and on school placement at 830 makes my brain mush
thats the general gist of what i was tying to say, but being tired, hungover and on school placement at 830 makes my brain mush
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i need a guy who can treat me right.
who wont let me down.
is it a part of life? feeling miserable and lonely? the magazines are telling us we're all feeling lonely sometimes. the comicstrips are joking about our loneliness.. that we are walking around , passing each other, nearby , and yet feeling lonely. but when does this "normal human loneliness" become a wierd just strange feeling that just tears us apart? is it when we feel lonely , even with our own company? is it when we feel lonely, even when people tells us "I love you"? or is it when you desperatly leaves a note on a website , just hoping someone to see you?
I don't know what is normal or not , but I do know that I feel lonely. sure I've got friends , and sure I've got a loving family... but there's something missing , and I don't know what it is. maybe it's true love , or maybe it's a soulmate or maybe it's just the feeling of being missing.. because isn't that the greatest feeling in the world? even better than feeling loved. because when people miss you, you know that you make impression , you know that you presence are important , but most of all , you know that you make a difference.. it does matter if you're there or not. people care about you, they want you to be there.. you make a difference..
ana johnsson said (sang) it the best:
"what about the world today? what about the place that we call home? we've never been so many, and we've never been so alone"
should it be like this? or is it just me, feeling lonely?
yes , maybe I'm desperate , publishing this text , maybe it's another try, to not feel so lonely. but I hope, that if there's someone out there , feeling as lonely as me , this text will make that person , feel a little bit more.. not lonely.. (what's the opposite word of lonely?) or at least make that person feel "even if I'm lonely, I'm not alone about feeling this way.." please , give someone a hug every day.. even if it doesn't cure human kinds loneliness , it makes us (or at least me) feel a bit better for a second or two.. take care 3