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grr what should i do

04-09-2004 16:10

offcenter488

305 posts

grrr this is a very frustrating situation...and its a long story....but i will try to make it as short as possible

ok i met this guy in 1 of my classes last year and we became friends. then he told me he liked me and i said that i wasnt sure but i think i liked him back. so anyways school ended, we talked everyday for like 3 weeks until he said that he wanted to ask me out and to email him how i felt. i was leaving for 2 weeks after that so basically i said, "i really like you as a friend, and maybe more. i will think about it and tell u when i get back. " so i left. i checked my email when i got there and there was an email from him that basically said "i just wanted to let u know that i never really liked you i was just playing around i love my girlfriend amy" (i know for a FACT that he broke up with her, i had no doubt that was a lie) I was really upset as you can imagine and sent him back saying "whatever, i was starting to feel bad for you anyways" because I didn't want to show how bad he hurt me. so then i checked my cellphone msgs. there was a thing from him that was really long but all static so i couldnt hear. so i thought nothing of it.
so basically after that i changed my email, blocked him on AIM and tried to move on because i realized that i really did like him.
school just started again. and other day, out of nowhere, he IMed me with a new sn asking why we didnt hangout this summer. I told him how much his email ticked me off and he just said "what email, the one i didnt send and then sent you another one after saying i didnt send it?" i told him i didnt get anything else cuz i changed my email. Then I asked him who sent it if he didn't. and he told me his MOM sent it because she thought he was still going out with his exgirlfriend. yeah no kidding. then he starts getting all mad at ME and making me feel guilty because i told him how much he hurt me and i didnt know whether i trusted him or not anymore. So now he refuses to even talk to me. Should i believe him and forgive him or not? even if he didnt send that, hes being such a jerk about the whole thing because he cant even see it from my point of view.

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04-09-2004 16:11 offcenter488
305 posts	omg that is ridiculously long. sorry about that
04-09-2004 16:34 victorine
3,099 posts	oh. sorry about that. u know stories like that happens. guys like that i'm telling ya are dickheads . sorry about that. i dunno if u should forgive him. but if my mum read this she would not 4give him.
04-09-2004 16:41 fishmunky
22,059 posts	he's full of crap no ones mom is that involved their kids love life i assure you...hell my mom couldnt access my emails if she tried...thats the lamest thing i've ever heard...my mom sent you a nasty email...if you believe that crap then its going to be the first of stupid lies that do you in lol...still he gets points for originality
04-09-2004 16:59 offcenter488
305 posts	lol thanks, i thnk i'm doin the right thing then
04-09-2004 17:10 jsimms52
24,669 posts	yah my mom doesnt even know what email is what i dont get is why someones mom would send a girl an email in the first place...its none of her business, how did she get the password anyways...its also an invasion or privacy which i would NOT forgive my mom if she did like anthony said...i dont think anyones mom is that involved with there childs lives and i think he is just bullsh*tting you and making you feel guilty over nothing...i would just try and move on and ignore him and go after someone else if i were you...but thats me
04-09-2004 17:17 MyLittleNoodle
1,367 posts	Yeah. . thjat's stupid. . . Unless he started going out with this Amy girl again. . . while he was waiting for you, and just sent that emajil to you. That's all I can think of.
04-09-2004 18:15 Catatonic
7,164 posts	That is full of crap....I wouldn't believe what that guy says for a second. Try and move on as best you can Guys are full of crap.
05-09-2004 01:15 offcenter488
305 posts	yup thanks everyone.... i guess i knew he was a complete loser, i just needed to hear it from someone else.

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