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Coming out

15-10-2009 16:43

Secret_Sphere

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So, I know I'm not really here that much anymore. But since I sometimes dabble in here, and Joey often mentions me, I want everyone here to know. I'll do my best to keep it short and open to any questions.

(I'm Jay The Viking/KateKateKate for anyone who does not know)

I am transgender. I identify as a man, not as a woman. This is something I have been thinking about, but not really discussed, for a long time. Eventually I will be going through a complete physical change to male, but right now I don't have access to these resources. It will be at least a year, but more like 3 or 4.

Either way, I am now going by the name Caleb, not Katherine/Kate. In addition, I want everyone to do their best to refer to me using the male pronoun. Any and all support is very important to me. I realize that it will be difficult for people on here who have known me for years so I can forgive slippage on the name or pronouns.

I do want to clarify one thing. I know I identified as a lesbian before, but this is not a case of "extreme lesbianism", and not everyone who is a lesbian wants to be male. Many are very happy with their female bodies and identities. I, however, am not.

As I said, I am open to any questions that people may have for me.

Cheers,

Caleb

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30-10-2009 20:42 Joeyy
11,158 posts	Yep, Caleb knows the son of Cher.
30-10-2009 20:42 Captain_Keeta
4,274 posts	Who is Caleb?
30-10-2009 20:44 WH1
437 posts	Any other freakazoids here,wanna come on out? Please,keep your sick abomination to yourself and stay IN.
30-10-2009 20:45 TheAnnoyance
47,943 posts	Caleb is Secret_Sphere. ...who's deleted his account.. again. lol.
30-10-2009 20:46 Captain_Keeta
4,274 posts	Oh ok. lol. I thought it was kalsonberry
30-10-2009 20:47 carole
28,823 posts	WH1, how about u keep your sick abomination to yourself for once? that annoyed me a great deal
30-10-2009 20:48 Juliet86
13,962 posts	Any mods around? I think someone needs a card.
30-10-2009 20:49 WH1
437 posts	The daughter of Sonny and Cher will always be a daughter besides tomboy Joanna you don't everyones friends and no one was addressing you
30-10-2009 20:55 WH1
437 posts	so You're wacked-out of your head too carole! Exclamation is appropriate since I know the answer to the question.
30-10-2009 20:55 Juliet86
13,962 posts	Oh, so because no one was addressing me (or Carole) we're meant to let you say whatever horrible things you want to someone?
30-10-2009 21:04 Juliet86
13,962 posts	Don't go calling people wacked. It says more about you than them.
30-10-2009 21:05 Joeyy
11,158 posts	I wouldn't call myself a tomboy. It's not a case of being everyone's friend (I assume this is what you meant); this guy you're being incredibly rude about is my boyfriend. And anyone else you insult here, they're people I care about, too. You should really have more respect for people, no matter how much your opinions differ. Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, straight...we'll always be better people than you (and Ludman, and whatever the other one of you is called - by the way, you should get some help with that) because you behave disgustingly towards others, and we don't.
30-10-2009 21:09 carole
28,823 posts	im whacked out of my head ? u made jesus cry when u said that about me. thats right, he's crying. and u're going to HELL. * offtopic : lets hope this works
30-10-2009 21:13 WH1
437 posts	Genesis 1 the very beginning - for those unread 27 So God created man in his own image and so,some woman(or 2) thinks she'll create a man,lol Genesis 2 a little later on 21 So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs [i] and closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib [j] he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. 23 The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman, [k] ' for she was taken out of man." Stupid humans who has BEWITCHED you?
30-10-2009 21:16 WH1
437 posts	I will call you by the name you give yourself in your opposition to The Word Of God
30-10-2009 21:17 Juliet86
13,962 posts	The bible has nothing to do with this. This is about how you treat people. Any god who wants you to act this way, is not a good god.
30-10-2009 21:18 carole
28,823 posts	i give myself the name of "carole, superhero". u can call me that. god agrees too
30-10-2009 21:23 WH1
437 posts	" this guy you're being incredibly rude about is my boyfriend. " Nope,your so wrong and that SICK statement there^is why you are also
30-10-2009 21:26 carole
28,823 posts	"Nope,your so wrong" i don't know where to start : the spelling mistake? the whole stupidness of the post? the whole wrong-ness of the post? oh man, it's like christmas, u don't know which present to open first..
30-10-2009 21:28 WH1
437 posts	Hey,WAKEUP! Don'tbe telling me or my brother anything different about God and the Bible God does not change, sin is STILL SIN.
30-10-2009 21:29 carole
28,823 posts	*sin is STILL IN.
30-10-2009 21:29 Joeyy
11,158 posts	Right, so, woman from man, man from woman...you just said yourself that it's fine. Aw, it's sick? Does my poor statement have Swine Flu? Don't you worry, I'll take care of it. Seriously, this isn't the place for your preachings. If you have to, you might want to try the one your God told you to do about treating others how you want yourself to be treated, and loving everyone. So picky about which teachings you follow. God will not be pleased. Really, we're not in church. Please stop spamming this thread.
30-10-2009 21:30 Juliet86
13,962 posts	And why is this not a sin, what you're doing? Seriously, WWJD?
30-10-2009 21:31 Joeyy
11,158 posts	On another note, I didn't realise Caleb deleted that account, but I know the comments from Ant and Bruna also meant a lot to him. Thanks to you both (from both of us).
30-10-2009 21:34 JuiceBoxJoe
2,782 posts	GOD dammit I was in the middle of a reply and I get redirected.WTF Ludman, WH1, whoever you are, at this point noone cares about your beliefs. This thread isn't about you and it is not another way for you to show everyone how much of an intolerant egotistic moron you are. There's no need, we already know. This thread is about Caleb choosing to tell everyone here about what he is doing. Either agree or disagree, it doesn't really matter. The moment you start being ignorant, you lose. Sorry ant, had to do it.