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20-03-2007 21:14 blondey73 | 
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| O.K. one of my friends likes me, but I don't like him that way, and I've told him that before but he keeps writing me these love notes and stuff, and I don't know what to say to him without hurting his feelings, 'cuz I still want to be friends with him, I ONLY want to be friends with him!   |
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| 21-03-2007 13:41 Hunnicomb |
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| ok, if i were you, i would sit your friend down and tell him how much you value his friendship. tell him you're flattered by his feelings for you, but nothing will change in the way you feel about him.
explain to him that maybe, if he carries on bombarding you with his feelings, he will affect your friendship.
if he starts to realise he could lose you as a friend, maybe he'll back off a bit.
it's strange though - you rarely get guys these days who write love letters! he must be serious about you. it's a shame you don't like him, really!
good luck x. | | 21-03-2007 22:36 PunkRckr8 | 
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| hunnicomb pretty much hit the nail on the head. . .
just get the guy one on one in somewhat of a private setting and have a nice easy talk with him. . .no matter what you say you won't change how he feels about you, so don't try to do that
instead just really try to explain to him that you really value his friendship, but that you don't want a relationship other than that with him | | 22-03-2007 20:32 bja77 |
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| mmhmm, hunnicomb's right...tell him that if he doesnt back off, it will affect your relationship as friends. | | 22-03-2007 21:54 Adimpleo |
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| Can just agree with said above: it's way much better than the way I solved my problem of the same kind...
He asks me out on an innocent *something* in city, and I say "yes, of course you can follow me and my girlfriend to the café this weekend - do you want to meet that hot-chic heterogirl single-friend of ours, she is really cute..?"
Heh, that was long time ago... But it got him back on earth, since I think he had made a mountain out of a molehill of his own feeling. One day after that, and there were as he had never felt anything at all, and that of a good actor he is not. But a good friend, no doubt. And he really likes an other girl now... *start to whistle the wedding hymn*  |
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