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@ 27-10-2006 10:09 TurkishDelightt | 437 posts
| Ok then,
As a nominee of being a scientist, i decided to find solutions to my problems by the methods of science.
Firstly, i need find out what the problem is clearly:
i like that guy in the class(let's call him Mario here) very much but we talk too little. i want him to like me as much as i like him but i need to find out what the right moves are to reach that.
WHY DID I CHOOSE MARIO?
These kind of things are so complicated for me. He is "the only guy" i would want in the class and i have no idea why he is...
i dont know him very well. his appearance and manners have attracted me and i was stunned when i first saw his misty eyes... but these are not enough i know. i must know him better and i want to. but i also want to be wanted!
JUST DO IT!!
And i bet some of you are saying "dont think too much, just go and ask him out. this is so simple."
and maybe this is the right thing to do... but how can i know? i tell you i want special things, he is special to me and i cant play games with it. i cant say "who cares?" when i tell him how much i like him and he decides to stay far away from me and ignore me. (cause this is what i do when some guy "friends" like me in that way...)
That would seriously depress me...
i remember two times that he told me im beautiful. they were great sweet moments that shined that days.
first one was when we talked first time. he had looked at the bulletin board at the school where they put the papers which show exams' results and i had gotten the highest mark from English. i assume that they had talked about me in his friends' group. 'cause one of his friends said congrats to me then Mario said too. then he said 'i knew that was you, who got 97' and i lolled and said 'how can you know? you dont kow me, lol' and he said 'only some one beautiful like you could get it' and i smiled and hitted him on the chest (not too hardly  ) and accused him of making fun of me )
and the second time i was showing the pic. on my identity card to one of his friends (and he was near us) i was telling him 'this pic is not good, is it? i look weird and this is not like me...' then Mario turned and looked and said 'this is you and this is very beautiful' and i laughed and thanked then he went back talking to his friends and we couldnt talk any more...
both memories make me smile whenever i remember. i know i have a great possibility to be accepted by him if i do right moves! but with wrong moves i can lose him forever. cause i know some guys who lost me forever cause of wrong moves. i feel like in a so damn risky game of chess. everything is possible. dependent on me...
WHAT WOULD YOU DO, IF YOU WERE ME??
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 0  @ 29-10-2006 22:35 cairowinters | 
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| Okay, first of all - forget science for this one! You can't choose who you like - just like you can't choose what kind of music you like or what food you like. So don't spend so much time trying to figure out why you like those people/things. Just don't think about it so much and just go with it. Whatever happens will happen. | | 0 @ 31-10-2006 16:11 Pandora | 
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| What would I do...
First :
Love is not an equation, opposites don't always attract, you can add two great people together and get a negative outcome... When you are just alike you don't always fit together. There is no rhyme or reason .. superstition or old wives tale that can sum it all up and just make it work. Each person is diffrent, people are ever changing even if we did find a master antidote for falling in love, it would only be good for a seconds time until everyone's hearts changed again.
Second :
I'm not basing this on age, because I have quit looking to see how old people are and basing my answers around such facts because kids don't believe they 'aren't old enough' so why talk to them like they aren't.. heh.. There is a difference between liking someone.... and enjoying them liking you. Make sure you really like him, and you don't just like how he makes you feel. You can build a relationship on moments of happiness.. but there aren't always happy moments .. so there has to be something else there to hold things together.
Third :
All you can do is jump. People spend their whole lives waiting for that 'perfect moment' or the right thing to say.. on and on, that many things just slip through their fingers. If he doesn't like you, sure it will crush you for a bit, and then you move on to someone else, but atleast you know. And if he does like you... you are making the move to go somewhere instead of idling in this stage of 'like'. Either way you are moving forward instead of resting in this 'in between' that so many people find themselves lost in.
Forth :
There's not much to the approach save don't be obsessed, take a breath before you speak, be honest, and give him time to think. Never rush into things.. time always has it's perfect schedule for us all... and be yourself. If he is going to like you... he will like all the squirks as well with your beauty and intelligence... you know? If he runs off at your nervousness and lack of the right thing to say in the right situation he's not worth keeping around anyway.... life isn't a movie, we don't get mood music... we don't get a retake... all we have is now... and now is fleeting so you have to grab ahold of the moments and make something of them.
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I don't know if any of that really helped, but trust me on one thing... one moment of happiness... of that heart flutter ... of that face blushing and smiling until your face hurts.... is worth hours of rejection. You just keep fighting... until one day someone will come up and fight for you.
rockon
tabitha | | 0 @ 31-10-2006 16:37 TurkishDelightt | 437 posts
| Hey Pandora!!
you're a genius lol. thank you x 100 !!
these are the greatest suggestions that i could take, i think... 
again, sincerely thanks... | | 0 @ 31-10-2006 17:23 kians_angel | 
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| ..."if your son was at home.. crying all alone on the bedroom floor cos hes hungryyy...."
sorry =/  | | 0 @ 31-10-2006 17:24 Pandora |
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| ha, what is that?
and you are welcome. =) I hope I helped a little.
rockon
tabitha | | 0 @ 31-10-2006 17:28 kians_angel |
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| a really, REALLY crappy song that everyone used to completely love a few years ago... City High - What Would You Do
so, soo bad :S | | 0 @ 31-10-2006 17:43 Pandora |
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| ah okay I get it now.. haha I was like how is that in anyway relative to this thread .. haha
rockon
tabitha | | 0 @ 31-10-2006 17:45 kians_angel |
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| maybe i should have put it off topic =/ haha didnt really think about it | | 0 @ 01-11-2006 05:47 TurkishDelightt | 437 posts
| and thanks to cairowinters | | 0 @ 01-11-2006 05:48 TurkishDelightt | 437 posts
| and ugh! to kians_angel... | | 0 @ 02-11-2006 06:08 yasmin256 | 137 posts
| Pandora, that was great.
Couldn't have said it better myself
xox Yasmin | | 0 @ 02-11-2006 06:54 Bucephalus | 
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| I skimmed over the first thing, didn't read Tab's long post, but I read Helen's City High quote. I used to love that song, I know every word. It's awesome. One of those songs and videos that I'll probabaly remember forever.
Anyways, step 1 to this is to not be so mushy and stuff about this. Mario isn't a science project, he's a boy. | | 0 @ 08-11-2006 16:10 TurkishDelightt | 437 posts
| and now things go really well. we talk more =) and we may be good friends. but i dont know whether he thinks of me just a friend or likes me in the way that i like him...what must i do to figure out that?
and even he thinks of me friendly, what must i do to change his opinion and attract him?? | 0 @ 08-11-2006 16:36 andro | 
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| You can't force anyone to love you. It's just something that happens over time, and you'll have to be patient.
One thing thta could help is spending a bit more time together. Why don't you try asking him if he wants to hang out with you somewhere? |
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