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Can you love a guy and hate him at the same time?

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@ 24-05-2006 06:39 babygir355l
43 posts	[topic=] And I did

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0 @ 24-05-2006 08:02 hobbitgirl
4,764 posts	There is a very thin line between love and hate.
0 @ 24-05-2006 08:06 BlackRia
2,656 posts	Yea its possible. Its happening right now with my friend & I.
0 @ 24-05-2006 08:25 _AdreNaliN_
2,668 posts	As for the question. Yes
0 @ 24-05-2006 08:26 NightHobbit
23,475 posts	you can love them but hate who they are
0 @ 24-05-2006 11:48 fishmunky
20,436 posts	Love and Hate are not opposites according to a Hindu traqdition i believe, Love, Hate and Fear all stem from the same center of the body its quite possible to feel love hate and fgear at the same person or object personally i think the opposite of love is indifference
0 @ 24-05-2006 11:50 stephanie8414
1,423 posts	Of course it's possible to love and hate someone at the same time. Love is nearly impossible to control and overcome, but hate can be controlled pretty easily.
0 @ 24-05-2006 11:59 fruity
12,214 posts	already a poll discussion on this topic- linky
0 @ 24-05-2006 16:38 BynnaD
2,845 posts	Stuck by Stacie Orrico Seriously, give it a listen.
0 @ 03-06-2006 01:12 SHEMANGOD
15 posts	Of course, that is how my ex's and I's relationship worked for a LONG time. He is a really great guy, but I couldn't stand the things he'd do to me. I really didn't like him, but at the same time, I loved him so much, that I couldn't fix the problem. Just a hint, if you hate them, and you date them, THAT IS BAD!
0 @ 03-06-2006 02:23 cairowinters
3,446 posts	Yeah you can, because the person you love the most is the same one who can hurt you the most. It's because you love them that they can hurt you.
0 @ 03-06-2006 02:38 dark_me
2,270 posts	yes
0 @ 11-06-2006 06:06 MuzikChick
14 posts	yes you can. Sometimes you can hate this guy because you know you love him. And you dont want to.
0 @ 13-07-2006 12:41 sexysugar15
459 posts	OMG YES!!! Theres times where i want to kill jason in his sleep and times where i just wanna cuddle in his arms... HATE N LOVE BEST FIT TOGTHER!!! MARIA
0 @ 15-07-2006 02:08 wow_its_me
65 posts	of course you can...
0 @ 22-08-2006 20:55 emological
14 posts	yeah, its extreeemly possible- it happened to me once: i fell in love with a guy who totally wrecked me, i went through a whole phase of still loving him but hating him for the same reason as i loved him, and hating him because i loved him. crazy huh? xxx
0 @ 22-08-2006 21:21 Dropkicked
969 posts	yes lol at the moment I am in love and loathing with a guy, made all the more complicated by the fact I thought I was a lesbian lol
0 @ 23-08-2006 21:33 mpj9121
90 posts	definitely.
0 @ 27-08-2006 10:29 TurkishDelightt
437 posts	i think it is a werd question, but i completely agree that it is possible and yea i felt the same many times too
0 @ 27-08-2006 10:29 TurkishDelightt
437 posts	*weird and i didnt mean the question i meant the situation
0 @ 06-09-2006 20:20 Little_Fox
81 posts	I'm in that situation right now...... lol
0 @ 04-12-2006 11:02 babygir355l
43 posts	well you can, especially when you two break up, it did happened to me, thats why i ask the question.
0 @ 04-12-2006 14:30 Pandora
22,886 posts	like I said in that thread you were linked to : Pandora @ 05-05-2006 02:31 PM no, hate and love are both extremely strong emotions.. sure there is a fine line between... (even tho it's not a fine line because of the closeness of the emotions.. but more then strength of each as a stand alone) but if you love someone there is no way in hell that hate will find it's way into your heart for them. and with true hate.. you despise everything about them.. there is no way you can love them after that. people only use vague definitions of 'love' and 'hate'.... love is more a 'like' or 'infatuation'... and 'hate' has become the universal term for 'I don't like you'... so of course they are going to be enterwined because at the suggestion of 'like' .. you have no idea HOW you feel about the person. but the emotions at their purest form... no. so.. when you are stuck in 'like' .. anything is possible. don't waste the pure word of 'love' on something that quaint. rockon tabitha
0 @ 04-12-2006 16:36 skye_hoppus
463 posts	i love him but i hate what he's done to me. maybe you can love someone but hate their actions? hmm it certainly feels like love and hate xxx
0 @ 04-12-2006 17:10 TheAnnoyance
45,068 posts	i agree with Tab.
0 @ 05-12-2006 17:12 babygir355l
43 posts	why agree with Tab when he/she can be totally wrong, you can love a person but hate them for who they are, and hate them at the same time, because they might hurt you or cheat on you. So i said that Tab is completely wrong cuz she/he just dont know what to say, but they should just wait until they are in that situation, then they should how it is. So why get involved when you just dont know what it is really about.